All of Us Are BECOMING: Inspired by Michelle Obama and in Honor of Black History Month

All of Us Are BECOMING: Inspired by Michelle Obama and in Honor of Black History Month

In Honor of Black History Month: How Michelle Obama’s Book Becoming is an Inspiration to Us All

I just finished Michelle Obama’s amazing memoir Becoming and I felt inspired to share a few reflections with you.

Let me be clear, even before reading her book, my love for Michelle Obama ran deep. Never before have I been so happy to share my name with someone. Her commitment to her family, her country, her career, her husband and partner are all inspiring.  I am also inspired by her voice and commitment to important causes like children’s health, girls’ education worldwide, and to our veterans returning from war. She used her position of power as First Lady to not only focus on these amazing causes, but she also did an incredible job of protecting her daughters so that they could grow up as “normal” as possible while living in the White House.

Besides learning more about how Michelle grew up on the South Side of Chicago, I also loved learning very human things about Barack Obama, like how he would leave his clothes lying around every where! I also smiled reading how cool and calm he is by temperament and how Michelle would be much more likely to get worked up about something (sounds a lot like me and my husband Gary!).

Lastly, what I loved as a through-line from the title to every section of the book was this idea of BECOMING.

She writes in the Epilogue:

“For me, becoming isn’t about arriving somewhere or achieving a certain aim. I see it instead as forward motion, a means of evolving, a way to reach continuously toward a better self. The journey doesn’t end. . . It’s all a process, steps along a path. Becoming requires equal parts patience and rigor. Becoming is never giving up on the idea that there’s more growing to be done.” (419)

You see, that is why I also love the work that I do. My clients may come in because they want to lose weight or change their eating habits or improve their digestive system or let go of their cravings to sugar . . . . but really what they want is to see is CHANGE. They think, “This is not working. Something needs to change and I might need some help in making those changes.” And I get the honor and privilege of being on that path or journey with them for a little while, to guide, support, encourage, and cheer along the way.

I think just like Michelle Obama, we are doing our best to continue to grow into new ways of being. And health and wellness for many is a part of that path.

Maybe this has you thinking? Was is it that I am becoming next? What part of my path is unfolding next? What small steps am I taking forward today? This may be in terms of your health, your family and relationships, your career, your community, your spiritual life.

For me, a new path I am exploring is reaching out to progressive leaders in my community so that I can empower them in actively achieving health, well being, and balance. If they feel strong, healthy, clear, and powerful by taking charge of their health and well-being, then they can better go out into the world and be the amazing agents of positive change we all so need them to be!

If you’d like to read more about this new direction or how you might be able to help me find these amazing leaders, please check out my blog post: I Am an Agent of Positive Change.

I will leave you with Michelle’s final words in the book:

“There’s power in allowing yourself to be known and heard, in owning your unique story, in using your authentic voice. And there’s grace in being willing to know and hear others. This, for me, is how we become.”

I am an agent of positive change: So excited to share a new direction for my practice!

I am an agent of positive change: So excited to share a new direction for my practice!

I am committed to empowering progressive leaders in actively achieving health, well being, and balance so that they can lead others in making positive changes.


My vision includes:

1. Working with progressive leaders one-on-one on their health goals.

2. Starting small online groups at a price point that the average employee in a progressive company or organization can invest in to invest in their health.

3. Workshops and seminars in organizations and companies on wellness and health and self-care.

4. Continuing with a lot of great free content available to a wide audience.


I am so fired up about this! It feels so good to finally be sharing this with you all!

So if you or someone you know is a progressive leader in a company, non-profit, educational setting, think tank, start-up, or any other progressive organization and would be open to either having a quick phone conversation with me or answering a few questions via an anonymous questionnaire, please let me know. Or if you know about cool organizations—local, national or international—that are doing amazing things and you want me to know about them, please share! You don’t need to know anyone there—with the help of my awesome intern, I’m amassing a database of organizations and causes.

I feel so passionate about this new direction with my practice. Thank you for any of your support!

Causes I feel committed to include but are not limited to (and in no particular order):

  • Environmental (water, land, climate change, conservation, animals)
  • Women’s Rights (including reproductive rights, domestic violence, intersectional feminism)
  • Racial and Social Justice
  • LGBTQ+ rights and representation
  • Food (organic farming, food justice, food safety)
  • Health
  • Children
  • Education
  • Civil Liberties
  • Veterans/PTSD
  • Housing and homelessness
  • Crisis services
  • Inmate and ex-inmate support services
  • Progressive political organizations
  • Arts (dance, music, visual, drama)
  • Spiritual/religious

A little back story . . .

It’s the two year anniversary of the Woman’s March on Washington. For those of you who don’t know, I went to Washington, D.C. in January 2017 to show up for what I stand for, to make my body seen and my voice heard. I showed up because I have the privilege to be able to do so—a flexible work schedule, no kids or ailing parents to care for, and the financial ability, although not easy, to do so. I had to go.

The morning after the election I woke up with such heavy grief, and the depression stayed with me for days. I am not one prone to depression so this inability to work, to get dressed, to shower, to eat, to move was new to me. I functioned but it was like moving through a molasses of grief, bewilderment and fear.

And I could see it in my clients as well. In the weeks leading up to the election, the amount of stress-eating, over-drinking, and fear was often spoken about by my clients. I was trying to support them, helping them focus on self-care in the midst of it all, but I understood their challenges.

A few days after the election, I started to pull myself out and being the person that I am—full of fire, determination, and optimism—I started to take positive action.

I started small, creating a free online self-care Facebook group called “Self-Care is a Radical Act of Love” and instead of accepting payment, I asked participants, if they could afford it, to donate to their favorite charity. Part of my mission with the group was “we need to take care of ourselves so that we are able to take care of others and be positive agents of change.” I knew if I was struggling, others would be too and might benefit from the support.

(By the way, I’ve reopened the group so that it is live and going again! It’s free and you can join HERE!)

Right now I’m going to pause and answer the question that might be in some of your minds . . . Why am I talking about politics on my health coaching business website?

The truth for me is that this election and the shifts that have occurred the past two years go way beyond politics. This is not about red/blue or which side of the aisle one supports. This is about important values that I hold dear and that I am willing to stand up FOR. The election of 2017 made one thing very clear to me. I am an agent of positive change.

Now what was I going to do about it?

So flash forward to the present, January 2019. This is what I’m excited to share with you and where I need your help . . . See above!!!

New online group starts January 28,  2019: LIVE IN THE FLOW!

New online group starts January 28, 2019: LIVE IN THE FLOW!

Welcome to Live in the Flow, the amazing group online group I am co-facilitating with my friend and colleague, Jill Lebeau, spiritual psychotherapist and author. Our next group starts January 28, 2019!

Tired of feeling stuck in old patterns where nothing ever changes? Instead imagine a world in which you can create your every heart’s desire with ease, joy and a good dose of laughter!

Through this amazing, fun, inspiring 9-week mentoring program you will reconnect with your power to transcend fear, doubt, judgment, hopelessness, negativity and regret.

By tapping into your mind-body-spirit connection and the infinite wisdom of Feng Shui, you will discover:

* your unlimited capacity to create optimal health

* abundant wealth and prosperity

* juicy, loving relationships

* career success

* clear life purpose

* clarity and confidence in yourself

* and unconditional self-love!

Learn How Easy it is to Generate Maximum Success Through Minimal Effort in Every Area of Your Life.

  • Apply the timeless principles and practices of Feng Shui to harness the power of the mind-body-spirit connection to create your reality
  • Recognize your inner fountain of youth, your body’s wisdom and innate healing capacity for optimal wellness and vibrancy
  • Reclaim your freedom to create the life you love, no longer at the mercy of any external situation, person, place or past experiences
  • Leverage your energy and power to move through life with ease, balance, grace, enthusiasm and love
  • Receive the benefit and insight of TWO dynamic, enthusiastic, passionate, interactive, experienced mentors with a gift for making learning fun and high-vibrational.

We offer a simple, proven, four-step process to apply the ancient technique of Feng Shui to the mind, body, and spirit that will transform your life.

In just four easy steps–declutter, envision, position and attract–you will discover how to harmonize your energy with the energy of nature and elements. And the results are amazing! Doors open, opportunities arise, and life feels truly magical!

Through our easy, fun, simple program, you will feel the shift from stressed to blessed–right away! Our 9-week mentoring program is a mixture of practical and easy steps, irreverent humor, joy and play, and divine wisdom.

Join our unique group program and you will receive:

*Twelve uplifting weeks of nurturing, enthusiastic, heart-centered mentoring from two master teachers in a supportive group setting, all from the comfort of your home!

*Group calls every week with your high-vibe community to provide you with additional support and a place to fine-tune and apply the teachings in the program. These calls are a great time to connect with your kindred-spirits and feel the magical power of the group to exponentially expand your experience of greater joy, abundance, success, and love. Calls will be Mondays at 7 pm PT and will also be recorded. 

*Experience immediate value from the expertise of Michelle and Jill, two dynamic, high-energy, fun-loving Live in the Flow coaches, with decades of experience, who are totally passionate about guiding people to live their most extraordinary lives.

*12 high-vibe modules where we guide you through the four easy steps to rapidly transform your mind, body and spirit (a new one each week). You can listen to or watch these recordings at your convenience (or listen again any time you need a quick lift, as they are downloadable!)

*Our “Playbook” full of fun Feng Shui fixes to apply the practices to your life immediately.

*Private Facebook group as a place to receive daily support, inspiration, guidance, and encouragement while in the 3-month group.

*Full-length Feng Shui Elements self-assessment quiz to reveal your divine gifts or SUPERPOWERS like: creativity, passion, prosperity, transformation, and purpose. Knowing how to access these Superpowers, you will be able to better align yourself with the elemental power you need for ultimate success!

You might be thinking, “Sound amazing? What will this cost me to enroll?”

The better question is what is the cost of your fear, stress, doubt and worry? And how are these challenging states impacting you and the people you love?

The truth is you deserve to create the life of your dreams. What value do you place on more love, more joy, more well-being, more prosperity? We’re ready to share our simple, proven, four-step process with you because we know it will rapidly transform your life!

Take your quantum leap forward with one of two options:

$1189 when paid in full (save $248)

$479 per month (for three months)

Sound great? ENROLL HERE TODAY!

Think of this program as your magic wand! Following the ancient wisdom of Feng Shui, this high-vibe group mentoring program is designed to help you clear away the old crap that is no longer serving you by decluttering any low-energy patterns, freeing you to envision the highest possibilities for your life, and then positioning the super-powers of the elements to attract all the wonderful opportunities that await you!

 

Testimonials . . . Here’s what people are saying!

Cyndi Combs (CMT), Self-Empowerment Coach & Wellness Motivator:
Jill and Michelle have created a beautiful gift for awakening souls that enhances our journey and very much fills the role of “midwife” as we give birth to our true self: fully connected to Spirit. The recordings are uplifting, easy to follow and delicious to savor! I have rapidly learned how to increase my personal energy instead of depleting it with cluttered, miserable thoughts! I was feeling powerless in so many ways and now I feel empowered and far more confident than I did just two weeks ago! Thanks so much!
Cheryl Kempton, Holistic Coach and Soul Collage Facilitator:
I love the way they integrated the five elements into their holistic program about creating greater health, wealth and love. While most Feng Shui teachings focus on space, this program really gets into how to apply its teachings, and the five archetypal elements, to your whole life. But more than that, Michelle and Jill give lots of examples and just the right amount of powerful practices to help you really integrate the teachings, find more balance, and live the life of your dreams. Essentially, this is all about balance, and who doesn’t need more of that in their life?
Joy Thomas (MNA), Love Wayshower:
I highly recommend joining this creative, on-line program taught by two amazing teachers. Jill has an inspiring, fun way to illuminate how all life is made from these Feng Shui elements, which really are our personal Superpowers! Michelle magically weaves in her nutrition and health expertise to complete the mind, body, spirit package. This is a perfect program to share with kindred-spirits for a fun-time together and to support each other in creating more ease, more flow, and a ton of joy!

Who we are:

Jill Lebeau (MS, MFT)—author, spiritual psychotherapist, and inspirational speaker—is on a mission to teach as many people as possible to live with a peaceful, loving mind and an open heart, where they’re free to tap into their greatest asset: the boundless wisdom, power and love of their true nature.

Michelle Dwyer (MS, CNC)—holistic health coach and certified nutrition consultant—loves to guide people to personal transformation and experience greater wellness, energy and vibrancy, and she empowers people to create optimal health in all aspects of their lives.

Does this sound amazing? We think you’ll love it! Join here!

    Twelve Ways of SLOWING DOWN this Holiday Season

    Twelve Ways of SLOWING DOWN this Holiday Season

    Do you ever get messages from multiple sources and they are all telling you the same thing? Well, I have and the message is SLOW DOWN and be in the flow!

    I love the holiday season . . . the lights, the songs, the gatherings with friends and family, the holiday cheer! It’s a truly beautiful and magical time of year.

    However, it can also be very challenging for many people. We can often feel overwhelmed, rushed, tired, and stretched too thin.

    This time of year, we are meant to slow down, go within more, start hibernating a bit. In Feng Shui, we will soon be moving into the Water element which is all about stillness, quiet, self-care, contemplation, and rejuvenation.

    And yet society asks us to DO MORE this holiday season. More parties, more obligations, more presents, more cards, more eating, more drinking, more “things” on the to-do list. No wonder so many people get sick once the holidaysare over. Their bodies are exhausted by all the pushing and over-doing!

    Instead, what if we focus more on doing less, taking items off our to-do list, creating more opportunities for self-care, being present with our loved ones, and maybe even saying NO to anything that does not truly lift our spirits.

    I know I need my own reminders to slow down and so I got inspired to do my “Twelve Ways of SLOWING DOWN this Holiday Season.” I hope they inspire you! 

    May your holiday season be filled with love, laughter, and peace.

    In health and gratitude, Michelle Dwyer


    On the 1st day of SLOWING DOWN, my true love of self gave to me . . . a minute break to do nothing!

    I know slowing down can be challenging, especially during this time of year. So I thought we’d start small: let’s take a ONE-MINUTE vacation right now! 

    Today, for *just one minute* practice taking a break. You can look at something beautiful, close your eyes and just breathe, or do nothing.


    On the 2nd day of SLOWING DOWN, my true love of self gave to me . . . a moment to fill up your own cup first so that you can give from the overflow!

    It may be helpful to take a moment to scan and see how full is your cup right now. If it’s feeling a little empty and depleted, see if there are some small ways to nourish yourself and fill it back up. Could be a chat with a friend, a walk around the block, a delicious and nourishing meal.

    And remember, self-care is not selfish. If you are not taking care of yourself, then it is hard to show up in all the ways you want to as a person, whether that’s at work, with your family, or for your community.


    On the 3rd day of SLOWING DOWN, my true love of self gave to me . . . the encouragement to schedule ONE treat for yourself some time in the next few weeks.

    Could be an acupuncture appointment, a massage, a pedicure, a hike with a friend, a restorative yoga class, or some time at a cafe to just read a book. You don’t have to necessarily schedule this for now (although you could!) but take a moment to get something on your calendar. Trust me, you’ll be glad you did!


    On the 4th day of SLOWING DOWN, my true love of self gave to me . . . do some stretches or a little yoga! 

    Doing the “legs up the wall” pose or Viparita karani is one of my favorite suggestions for lowering our cortisol (stress hormone) levels and resetting any time of day! Take just 2 minutes to do this pose and I promise you’ll feel better. Child’s pose is another pose and relaxing to do. Not into yoga? How about a few stretches while on a quick break from work or while you’re waiting in line? Doing a few yoga poses or stretches are great for a little mid-day break, as a way to unwind when you get home from work (or holiday errands), or right before bed.


    On the 5th day of SLOWING DOWN, my true love of self gave to me . . . the idea of giving presence instead of presents.

    A recent study “suggests that small acts of kindness, not grand overtures, make people feel most loved and supported.”

    Check out this great article to help bring some perspective this holiday season about gift giving. It’s a great breakdown of how many people experience more stress during the holiday season and how the antidote is slowing down, connecting with people more, and taking good care of yourself.

    What is your favorite way to connect with people during the holidays?


    On the 6th day of SLOWING DOWN, my true love of self gave to me . . . a moment to contemplate the beauty of nature!

    Connecting with nature is a beautiful way to slow down and be more present. And it can be free and easy! This can be as simple as noticing the sunrise or sunset, a bird in a tree, the way the light comes in your kitchen in the afternoon. I’ve peronally been watching the hummingbirds outside my work desk window! 

    What sights of nature have you noticed lately and how did you feel?


    On the 7th day of SLOWING DOWN, my true love of self gave to me . . . new and old traditions!

    One of the things that can make the holidays so special are the traditions that are passed down. Whether it’s lighting the candles, singing songs, decorating the house, or making special foods, most of us can think fondly of new or old family traditions.

    That said, certain traditions, when they start to feel like a “should” rather than a true heart’s desire can take some of the magic out of the tradition and make it feel more like a chore or creates stress instead of joy.

    So I encourage you this holiday season to check in on your traditions . . . what makes you feel joyful? What’s fun and easy? What feels truly special? And what maybe just doesn’t anymore? Maybe it’s time to release a tradition that is no longer serving you or anyone else.

    Or maybe it’s time to make a NEW tradition, one that creates more moments of calm and presence and joy and ease!

    I would love to hear what traditions you cherish and maybe which ones you have let go of.


    On the 8th day of SLOWING DOWN, my true love of self gave to me . . . the gift of reading a good book!

    Reading a really great book is personally one of my favorite ways to slow down and get some time for myself.

    Many of you may not know, but before becoming a holistic nutritionist I was an English teacher and have MA in literature. I love love love books!

    I usually read fiction over non-fiction but I do love a well-written memoir or biography. Women’s lit, multicultural American lit, African-American lit, Sci-fi and dystopian lit, spiritual books, modern lit, chick lit—I love it all! I love when I can fall into a book, and I love when I am so into a book that I can’t wait to get back to it.

    Do you love to read? Do you find it relaxing? What is one of your favorite books?


    On the 9th day of SLOWING DOWN, my true love of self gave to me . . . a great online program about LIVING IN THE FLOW and creating more joy, prosperity, abundance, and love in your life!

    As I was thinking about different tips and strategies for slowing down this holiday season, I realized this is something my colleague Jill Lebeau and I have already put together in our group mentoring online program called Live in the Flow: Attract More Health, Wealth, and Love Into Your Life. 

    Our next group is starting soon! Come join a group of kindred spirits! Join here today: https://feng-shui-your-mind-body-spirit.teachable.com/p/live-in-the-flow


    On the 10th day of SLOWING DOWN, my true love of self gave to me . . . 50 ways to take a break!

    Really. Go take a break. You’ll be glad you did! What’s your favorite way to take a break? I love these ideas because they can be really simple. 

    What’s your favorite way to take a quick break, even in the “busy” holiday season?


    On the 11th day of SLOWING DOWN, my true love of self gave to me . . . a simple, nourishing meal.

    I know with the rush of holidays and the onslaught of sugar everywhere, it can feel challenging to take the time to slow down and eat a nourishing meal. But trust me, your body will thank you for it!

    One of my favorites is this Tuscan Bean Soup with Kale. I usually use poultry seasoning instead of the individual spices and it turns out great.

    This recipe is vegan (minus the parmesan cheese) but you can also add grilled chicken or use bone broth if desired.


    On the 12th day of SLOWING DOWN, my true love of self gave to me . . . wishes for a wonderful Winter Solstice!

    Usually around December 21 is the first day of winter and from this point forward, each day we will have more light. Although many traditional celebrations this time of year focus on the importance of bringing the light into the darkness, I think it’s important to also honor what darkness brings as well: rest, rejuvenation, magic, mystery, and dreams.

    And just like the new year celebrations, the Winter Solstice is also a time to focus on all the good things to come in the new year. I wish you and your loved ones all the love, joy, and peace of the holiday season!


    Thank you for joining me for the Twelve Ways of Slowing Down and enjoying the holiday season! I hope you received a helpful reminder or inspiration along the way.

    10 Day Sugar Challenge: Starts December 2, 2018!

    10 Day Sugar Challenge: Starts December 2, 2018!

    The next 10-Day Sugar Challenge for December 2-11, 2018 is the perfect opportunity for a little recalibration in the midst of the holiday season!  What a great way to move through the holidays and take charge of your health!

    Sugar cubes picDid you know that high sugar intake is not only linked to dis-eases like high cholesterol, diabetes, high blood pressure, cancer and inflammation but sugar can also aggravate other conditions like hormonal imbalance, headaches and migraines, yeast infections, joint pain, and overgrowth of the “bad” bacteria in our gut?

    Some of you might feel like you are addicted to sugar. Or maybe you might think you don’t eat much sugar until you decide to really clean it out of your diet (What? It’s in bread and deli meat?). Maybe you are usually pretty low-sugar but you just want to get yourself back on track? Or perhaps you need a little break from the indulgences of summer? Wherever you are, we have a level to support you in your health and vitality!

    If any of these sound like you, I have the perfect solution for you!

    Join the next 10-Day Sugar Challenge starting December 2!

     

    What you will get:

    • private Facebook support group with daily suggestions, tips and ideas to address any sugar cravings. You can also post questions, get support from other members, and stay connected to the sugar retreat community.

    • A Facebook live Q&A (TBA) before the challenge starts to answer any questions and to help you make sure you are all prepared for the sugar retreat.  (This will be recorded if you can’t make it live.)

    • Ebook with helpful information to help you get started.

    • Individualized suggestions to help you come up with a plan that works for you.

    • Three different levels so you can find the path that works best for you!

    • It’s more fun to do this with friends and family! Invite a friend or family member to join!

    Does this sound like just what you have been looking for to reset your body?

    Then click here to join today!

    Past participants report some pretty amazing results in just 10 days!

    • jumpstart to weight loss
    • less cravings
    • more focus and clarity
    • more energy
    • less depression and anxiety
    • reduction of PMS symptoms 

    This is an amazing opportunity at $79 per participant

    (valued at over $225)

    and if you’ve joined before, you can re-enroll for just $59

    OR if you and a friend want to join together, the “buddy price” is also just $59/person!

     

    It’s easy to join! Just CLICK HERE to join via Eventbrite and you’re all set.

    I’ll be sending out the information and materials a few days before our 10-Day Sugar Challenge begins!

     

     

     

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